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In life, we can only choose one relationship: husband and wife, the remaining relationships are the default. And marriage is said to be a matter of a lifetime. But today, people often refuse to fulfill this promise and couples opt for legal divorce at the first sign of serious disagreement.
In Sanatan Dharma there is no concept of divorce. Sanskrit, the primordial language of this universe, does not have the word 'divorce'. Vivah is a Sanskrit word, i.e. marriage is the right action that gives the right form, Samyak Aakar. Marriage changes us at every level, physically, emotionally, spiritually and also family, social, financial, etc. Marriage is solemnized with the presence of the Sun in the sky and the top of the sky. The Agni/fire is lit before the couple. These two are eternal witnesses. After marriage, the couple must behave towards each other in accordance with the Dharma. Marriage is a bond created with mantra, intention and energy, which is only broken when one of the partners physically dies. Exactly 'Until death do us part' in English.
The energy of sanskar is something that lasts a lifetime so choose your life partner wisely. In case things don't work out, the legal option of divorce is always available. But legal divorce cannot change the energy back to its previous form. So whenever you decide to get married, use your common sense. Young men and women are easily influenced by emotional behavior or can also be influenced by black magic. So consult your family, do background checks etc to be reasonably certain before committing. Checking zodiac compatibility and using astrological principles to make this decision is also an option.
(In ancient times, women had more freedom. If her parents did not arrange a match for her within 3 years of puberty, she had the freedom to choose her life partner. Before that, Puberty is around age 17.)
I have witnessed many young couples passionate about romance. They rarely test their social compatibility, family compatibility as well as personal energetic compatibility. They think the first feeling of excitement is enough for a lifelong commitment. This first spark is a function of 5lame pants House. Emotional balance in a partnership is a function of 7lame pants House. True respect in marriage is possible if both have a deep sense of Dharma, that is, the foundation of their lives is solid. This means 9lame pants The house must be sturdy. This encourages mature cooperation, prevents straying, and results in good children and a place in society. These three houses contribute to the stability of the marriage at different stages.
One tip is to pay attention to the number 9's motivationlame pants The house has number 1st and 5lame pants houses. Check it out in the birth horoscope or in some typical Dasha number 1st and 5lame pants The house gets more power in 9lame pants. During this time frame, ego and personality have the potential to dominate the partnership. Any number of factors during this time can encourage the person to opt for a legal divorce at the first sign of disagreement. Observe your clients, noting how their interpersonal relationships change with transits and dashes, sometimes quite suddenly.
We are human and function best when we love and are loved in return. But the world we live in belongs more to Mercury. It is dominated by superficial interactions, needs to know, calculated behavior, shallow personalities, it is like an eternal youth. We interact with many people but only through screens. We send this emoji 🤗 to a lot of people but when was the last time we actually hugged someone we truly love? Even in the family we are born into, our parents, grandparents, siblings are all emotional strangers to us.
Mercury is well supported by Rahu in this. Deception, illusion and all-consuming desire. And even before we deceive others, we are also lying to ourselves. We project a personality different from who we really are, then get stuck in this image. We don't have time to invest in genuine relationships. Desiring new excitements, new heights of pleasure, we confuse deep "love" with temporary "lust". After getting married, we often place all our expectations of "perfect love" on just this one person. We forget that our spouse is human too. And it's unrealistic to expect him or her to be perfect all the time.
What do you really expect when you say you want to be 'loved'? This is the need to be loved. So, open your horoscope. How do you need to be loved? Let's analyze this using the astrological concepts we have studied so far.
Emotional expectations
Analyze the Moon to understand your emotional expectations. How are you?feel'? In general, are you a happy person, able to find happiness within yourself? Or does your inner happiness depend on external influences? The moon is the lens of your perception, the clearer it is, the more light it can let in.
So let's check which house he is placed in? eg: If he is located in dushamsthan i.e. 6lame pants house 8lame pants house or 12lame pants House, (3rank can typically go both ways) he was uncomfortable and stressed. The forces of this house will disturb your sense of emotional security. So the ideal solution here is to train your Mind to learn a 'spell' – a habit that helps you separate your emotions from stressful situations. for example, on the 6th Moon, you can clean your room or spend at least a few minutes organizing your desk. For the 8th Moon, that could mean going to the gym or doing a few minutes of pranayam. Or for the 12th Moon, it could be some time alone in nature or a few minutes with a potted plant.
But if placed in a 'good house'', – 1st 2rank 4lame pants 5lame pants 7lame pants 9lame pants 10lame pants and even 11lame pantsThe things, activities and people represented by these signs always support you spiritually. If you are feeling depressed, actively seek out these people/things and feel your mood improve.
So which sign is he occupying? Is he manic or depressed? Is he in the sign of a friend or enemy planet? What keywords are represented by this sign? How do they affect your emotional state?
Which planets are influencing him, in aspect to him or in conjunction with him? The Moon does not regard any planet as its enemy but Rahu, Ketu, Mercury, Venus and Saturn and their agents tend to 'dislike' Moon and upset him. Such a mind can get stressed more easily.
So, first analyze your emotional state, be a little introspective. Try to be aware of what might bother you and what might comfort you at the deepest emotional levels. If you do this, you have won half the battle. Use this information consciously in your life. If you feel agitated, think about why this is happening and do something proactive. Don't wallow in sadness, don't sit there like a lump. Make an effort to get out of the emotional situation you are in. Meet people who can help you regain emotional stability. For example. if the Moon is in number 4lame pants Go home and talk to a mother you know.
Personal personality
Do the same exercise with your ascendant and the lord of the ascendant. Get a feel for your personality from your Ascendant. And your ascended lord will tell you how well adapted you are to your environment and how that environment supports you. Do you have the ability to change your surroundings according to your preferences? that is, is the strength of character strong enough? Or do you adjust yourself to meet the demands of your surroundings? There is no right or wrong, this is just self-analysis to know how you behave in situations. Use astrology systematically to understand your personality and how best you can use it. Thanks to that, you will be able to manage any situation and protect yourself and your rights properly.
I have met a number of clients where young women expect their husbands to be gentle gentlemen and respect them simply because they are women. I have seen many men hurt by their wives' unreasonable behavior. And also witnessed women being brainwashed, forced to follow their husbands' religion, culture and lifestyle. Inequality and tension in marriage lead to its eventual breakup. This usually happens when the basic personality is not confident, the ascendant/lord is afflicted.
Preferred partner
Check the 7th house from your ascendant. This is your mirror, a person/idea/concept/energy that fills your void in every way. Analyze the zodiac sign, its owner, its resident planet/direction. Know what you're really looking for. Be prepared for a surprise here. Most of us think about partners in terms of physical relationships. But a role model/partner means much more than that. It could even be an idea or your spiritual practice, an activity or even a deity. The 7th house calculated from the natal day of the Moon similarly analyzed will give you the emotional expectations you have from this particular concept of your lover.
In short, life is very short right now, it's always less than what you really want. So try your best to living your life. Choose wisely and once you've committed, try to pursue the best you can. But, and this is important, Don't try too hard to endure what is unbearable.
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